Where are my Brothers at
I gotta tell yah…the one year ago me would laugh at what I’m about to say. He had not a clue what to do nor how to react when someone told him this. It lit him up with anger and confusion, and immediately disregarded this.
“You are whole and complete just the way you are”
“Excuse me what? What do you mean I’m ‘whole and complete’…I’m so far from it. I’m in a job I dread, in this constant on/off relationship that is DRAINING but in can’t see a way out, I have no sense of self and no true connection with anyone other than brushing each question of with an ‘I’m fine’, or drinking copious amounts of alcohol with “my bros” to forget what I’m struggling with. I just want to forget the tension I have with my family, or how my partner left me after I thought she was the one, or how I seemingly have everything externally but I’m still not full satisfied.
And worse of all? I’m am terrified to admit any of this. I can’t see a way out - and you have the audacity to tell me I’M GOOD? When so clearly I am DESPERATE to break my old habits of constant heartbreak, of binge eating and yo-yoing weight, of not being able to stick to anything long term as each person who even tries to form a close connection with I wiggle out and keep everything at the surface - where it’s safe.
How can I possibly be ‘whole and complete’ as you so say?”
You get the picture.
As you read the above, some of this may be resonating with you so deep that you feel a slight pinch in your gut, increased heart rate, and a shallower breath.
I invite you for a moment to hold this feeling and not immediately dismiss. Feel the sheer emotional power you have right now. Maybe it’s rage, anger, sadness, guilt, or shame. Whatever it may be, this energy you have can and does define your day to day life.
Don’t believe me? Ever wake up in a shit mood where it was supposed to be a great day, but you had 0 chance from the get go to actually live in the moment vs being swirled up in the emotions you have? Or maybe you’re out on the town with a few friends whom you haven’t seen in ages, and then seemingly out of no where you have a wave of intense emotion after just one too many drinks.
These emotions can either ruin us as men, or, if channelled correctly, they can allow us to live for the first time. Taking these emotional states and channelling them consciously opens you up to a whole new realm of possibility.
To be so full of emotion and to remain calm, directive, confident and take divine right action...THIS is what is calling for us today as men.
Turning our “hustle” to full fledged alignment in all that we do. Being so in touch with our emotional and vulnerable states that we know exactly what we want when we want it, and we act without hesitation towards that directive and get it.
We are whole and complete as we are in this moment, it’s a matter of truly accessing this strength, which we cannot do until we authentically journey inwards.
IS THIS TERRIFYING?
Accessing on a whim our deepest wounds and triggers? Seeing for ourselves for who we really are and seeing the darkest parts of ourselves?
Holy hell yes. It is emotionally exhausting to see and accept yourself for all that you are.
The best part?
You don’t need to do this alone.
I remember going through these exact realizations and moving through my emotions for the first time in 26 years, and my past partner suggested that I reach out to my guy friend’s about this since she was at her wits end (to be honest I don’t her blame for that…I was a piece of work).
But what she didn’t understand is that I had no one to turn to for this. There were no men that I knew even in the same realm to talk about this, not to mention I could barely even describe what was going on.
I remember feeling so emotional about my parent’s divorce, even though this happen 9 years ago and after I have reconciled everything in my head and have a healthy relationship with both of them. All I would do is beat myself up and talk shitty to myself for feeling like this, thinking that I had already processed everything.
It didn’t make any sense, and I had no outlet to guide me along this journey. But little did I know that these immense emotions I had could be the catalyst for finding my inner strength and confidence as a man.
THIS IS THE NEW WAY FORWARD
Having a container of men to discuss, support, and sustain your journey inwards to you can be a better man. A better partner in your union, a better son, a better brother, a better human.
This is the core of what this transformative program offers - creating space to fully immerse yourself into what has been holding you back and blocking you from living the life you know you want but can’t seem to get.
It’s for men who are ready to step into their calling and live a life rooted in self-love, confidence, light, and authenticity. For men who want to fully utilize their masculinity to improve their relationships, sense of self, live in alignment and to wholeheartedly love themselves.
This program is not for the man who is doesn’t care to tap into his emotional prowess, thinks that he is above anyone else, actively compares his journey to his fellow brother, and is not meant to serve as a substitute for therapy or other professional services.
FULLY EMBODY WHAT IT MEANS TO BE A MAN
12 weeks of undying support, content, and accountability
You will fully be seen, heard, and allowed to share your story as it unfolds in front of you. Release the fear that is preventing you from fully embodying yourself in a container surround with like-minded men who have their own unique story and journey to share. While this is a 12 week program, this group program establishes a forever brotherhood and inspires, transforms, heals, and encourages one another to step into their truest sense of who they are.
Weekly 1:1 calls and group calls
Full, dedicated support from myself on our weekly calls, and a container facilitated by myself 1x a week. To show you are not alone in this and to show that you have so much to give and teach others.
Opening up and leading with vulnerability is a new way of living and can feel like you’re living a double life. To actually ingrain this successfully we will dig into what makes you the way that you are, and enhance what is working and release what is no longer serving you.
Weekly Embodiment practices
Talking about all of this is great, but how we integrate and live true to our new found knowledge is what truly transforms your life. There will be weekly embodiment practices (a fancy word for homework) that serves to enhance your experience and time in the program.
PrivAte SLACK group
The more interactions you have with your brothers in this space, the more this ingrains and the more seamless it will be to take this new found way of living into your day to day lives. I will be a message away to discuss and hold space for you during this immersion. And the Slack channel invites collaboration and co-creation with your fellow brothers as you all embark as equals along this journey.
7 key modules and a whole lot of lessons
This is a group of future brothers who embark on a 3 month journey where we learn and dive deep into topics such as vulnerability, manifestation, mindfulness, health, wealth and prosperity, divine right action, relationships, heart guided living, and so much more. Each module will build upon the last, and will give you the resources and power to transform. We journey to your innocence and sacredness as a man, and dive deep into what it actually means to live with this “new-age” masculinity and how to use this in your day to day life.
You reading this right now is a call to action to finally step forward and fully embody your emotional state to cut out all that bullshit cycle you have been perpetuating over and over again. So you can step forward with power, confidence, and openness to receiving all that life has to offer.
Fill out my application below and step into your calling.
I look forward to this journey with your my Brother.